Yes, I see. I suppose she didn't expect it to go the other way. She's used to being the more perceptive one, because of her work. It's probably very confronting for someone to be able to see her like that, too.

This is very out of character. I know she can be very fiery and get caught up in anger occasionally, but this is not the way she would usually handle it. Not in my experience. I'm so sorry she's making you feel icky. That's not the way it should be at all.