[identity profile] father-peter.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't say fag, Thomas. And the name of the man who married Adrian is 'Ashley Bigglesby' so they wouldn't know you were related to him.

That being said, I know that wasn't your point at all anyway. Thomas, if Joe really is telling the people he works with that Julian is straight, then he's making a mistake. But he's a good man. And he loves you. Joe will own up to what he's done because that's what good men do. And he will make it clear just how much you mean to him.

[identity profile] suave-thomas.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I was just trying to follow his thought process, you know I wouldn't use the word in a derogatory sense! I'm married to a man! And I sort of forgot about the name thing...

Yeah. You're right. He is a good man. I just feel...I don't know. Joe was my 'father' for a lot of years and if he's saying that about Julian, I'm feeling the disapproval in stead and it sucks.

[identity profile] father-peter.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I certainly know how fatherly disapproval feels.

Thomas, this will clear up in a few days. It always does. I'm not saying what he did was okay. But things will right.