Thomas, you're not a drain of any kind, let alone a big one. Honestly, I'd be completely supportive of your decision, if you wanted to stay at home and raise our children. They'd be very lucky to have that. But you really can do anything you want to. Even if you wanted to continue with the gardening theme. I know you enjoyed that, and you'd be able to work outside, and be doing something practical. Maybe in a botanical garden, somewhere that required the sort of gentle care you're so good at giving? Any place you choose to work would be very fortunate to have you.
(And of course Sirius Black is real! I'd be most put out under any other circumstance.)
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Date: 2008-07-03 11:03 am (UTC)Thomas, you're not a drain of any kind, let alone a big one. Honestly, I'd be completely supportive of your decision, if you wanted to stay at home and raise our children. They'd be very lucky to have that. But you really can do anything you want to. Even if you wanted to continue with the gardening theme. I know you enjoyed that, and you'd be able to work outside, and be doing something practical. Maybe in a botanical garden, somewhere that required the sort of gentle care you're so good at giving? Any place you choose to work would be very fortunate to have you.
(And of course Sirius Black is real! I'd be most put out under any other circumstance.)