To Those in the Know
Nov. 11th, 2008 11:24 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
If my son hadn't been with me, I would have punched someone on the street today. He was screaming at his kid. Calling him names. And when I pulled James away from it because I didn't want any child to see a parent treating their kid like that, the man got offended. He started screaming at me, and when his poor kid started crying, he smacked him.
I have rarely been so angry. It took everything in me not to chase him down and pummel him. Instead, I just rang the cops, but I don't know if anything happened. I hope it did. I didn't have a name or anything.
Fuck, I hate people sometimes.
And then James asked me why that man was being so mean to his son and I didn't know what to tell him. How do you explain that to a two year old?! I just promised him he would never have to know first hand. And dammit, he never will.
I have rarely been so angry. It took everything in me not to chase him down and pummel him. Instead, I just rang the cops, but I don't know if anything happened. I hope it did. I didn't have a name or anything.
Fuck, I hate people sometimes.
And then James asked me why that man was being so mean to his son and I didn't know what to tell him. How do you explain that to a two year old?! I just promised him he would never have to know first hand. And dammit, he never will.
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:09 am (UTC)James didn't seem scarred by what he saw. He said it was scary, but he didn't seem scared of anyone other than the man. God, Spectre... That man. His kid broke a lamp or something, and the man just kept calling him worthless and stupid. And then he said the kid wasn't going to get dinner because had to pay for the lamp...
I wanted to bring him home. The kid. Not the dad. Him I wanted to murder.
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:58 am (UTC)I hate to think of what sort of life that child is living. I wish we could have taken him home, too. And the father to jail. It's just unconscionable. A reminder that while a single child is living through that, there's a hell of a lot of work left to be done in this world. I can't believe that man was so blatant about it. He must really think it's okay, and I think that's the scariest thing of all. Thank the stars you were there to take care of James, and help him understand as much as was needed. If the overwhelming impression he takes away from this is his daddy protecting him, at least we have that.
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:08 pm (UTC)The man challenged ME there's no doubt in my mind that he thought he was right. I just...is there anything we can do? Could you...I don't know...write a song? I don't understand art...
I want James to know he's always safe. I kept thinking 'What would Joe do?'
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:36 pm (UTC)I can't believe that man, I really can't. It's abominable. You're right, something does need to be done. I think it's something I could write about. It's very close to home, after all. I think I have an idea.
You know, I often have that thought myself. Although sometimes it's Thomas, Abby or Lavinia, too...
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:38 pm (UTC)I love your ideas. They shine of brilliance.
Oh, Babe. That's beautiful.
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:54 pm (UTC)Thomas, darling... you too say such gorgeous things. I think I want to try some spoken word set to music. I think that will convey the gravity of what we want to discuss. It's something you could do too, if you wanted.
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:56 pm (UTC)Really?! Me?! ME?!
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Date: 2008-11-12 01:07 pm (UTC)Of course you! You've a beautiful voice, and this stems from an experience that struck your heart. I can think of nothing more appropriate.
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:07 am (UTC)Not that what you saw is any less fucked, really. I'm so sorry you did. That poor boy. My heart absolutely breaks for him. James is really fucking lucky to have you, Spectre, and everyone else who looks after him. I know I'm damn lucky to have had four awesome parents, too.
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:10 am (UTC)I'm damn lucky to have had Lavinia. It's only right to pass it on.
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:59 am (UTC)I love to see the Littleton joy passed on. It's one of the best things in the world.
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:08 pm (UTC)You make Littletons joyful!
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:09 am (UTC)God, that makes my blood boil. Thank goodness I have people right in front of me to remind me of the good parents. The great parents. Damn that man...
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Date: 2008-11-12 11:12 am (UTC)I know. I only have to watch you and Christina with William or Aly and Peter with...all of them, to remember good parents exist. I did have the best!
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:01 pm (UTC)We're very fortunate to have an extended family filled with so much love. I treasure you all.
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Date: 2008-11-12 12:10 pm (UTC)And we treasure you.
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Date: 2008-11-12 01:09 pm (UTC)Which kind of makes me want to give you a wedgie to see what your hot Spanish blood will make you do to me...
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Date: 2008-11-12 01:17 pm (UTC)As for what my hot Spanish blood will do? It makes me want to chase you with Aly's riding crop...
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Date: 2008-11-12 01:25 pm (UTC)Maybe I'll buy my own.
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Date: 2008-11-12 01:27 pm (UTC)Spectre wore cowboy clothes for me once. Mmmmmmm.
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